{"id":1103,"date":"2023-12-04T07:05:09","date_gmt":"2023-12-04T03:05:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/?p=1103"},"modified":"2023-12-05T17:48:08","modified_gmt":"2023-12-05T13:48:08","slug":"nostalgia-past-perfect-or-past-perfect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/2023\/12\/04\/nostalgia-past-perfect-or-past-perfect\/","title":{"rendered":"NOstalgia: &#8221; Past Perfect &#8221; or past perfect?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8221; Everybody is entitled to her own nostalgia &#8220;-<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em> James Wolcott<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>Nostalgia<\/em><\/span> has this strong fixation with the <em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">status quo<\/span><\/em>. The fetish for things to remain the same. Mired in the belief that the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>past<\/em><\/span> was <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>perfect. <\/em><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Are you sure?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>Disintermediation<\/em><\/span> is nature&#8217;s strategy. Something that is unstoppable. Culture changes, technology advances, people&#8217;s expectations change- and the old gives way to the new and gets left behind, whether voluntarily or involuntarily.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It is not just the gadget brands( of course they resort to <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>planned obsolescence<\/em><\/span> ). Everything comes with a shelf life. The technology that we are struggling to come to terms with now will soon be a relic as something new will invariably replace it. Moving on from the past is a given certainty, whether it is moving on for the better remains a question.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>Nostalgia<\/em><\/span> is a beautiful lie dressed up in <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>sepia<\/em><\/span>&#8230;the saddest form of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>glee<\/em><\/span>. It is, be definition, the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>least authentic<\/em><\/span> of all <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>feelings<\/em><\/span>, an ephemeral composition of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>disjointed memories<\/em><\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>Nostalgia<\/em> <\/span>is like a <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>grammar lesson<\/em><\/span>; you find the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>present tense<\/em><\/span> but the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>past perfect<\/em><\/span>. Where we often visit the land of lost content, you see it shining plain, the happy highways where you went and cannot come again. The vice of the aged, a seductive liar..a wistful or excessively sentimental yearning for return to or some of some past period or irrecoverable condition.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>Nostalgia<\/em><\/span> and a <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>growth mindset<\/em><\/span> are at loggerheads, so it is not a Hobson&#8217;s choice. <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>Nostalgia is the enemy of optimism<\/em><\/span>..<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>Either you believe nostalgically that the best years were in the past..or you believe optimistically that the best years are in the future.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Time to go past the past!\u00a0 <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><em>Knowstalgia?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>ENDS<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &#8221; Everybody is entitled to her own nostalgia &#8220;- James Wolcott &nbsp; &nbsp; Nostalgia has this strong fixation with the status quo. The fetish for things to remain the same. Mired in the belief that the past was perfect. Are you sure? &nbsp; &nbsp; Disintermediation is nature&#8217;s strategy. Something that is unstoppable. Culture changes, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/2023\/12\/04\/nostalgia-past-perfect-or-past-perfect\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;NOstalgia: &#8221; Past Perfect &#8221; or past perfect?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1103"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1103\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1105,"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1103\/revisions\/1105"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sureshdinakaran.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}